beautiful nature with gentle breeze .... awesome morning greetings from the nature will not last for the day whole with our daily chores.... galz getting married shortly will have lots and lots of things going on in their mind... be it a feeling of warmth ..., the urge to get passionate... , the responsibility to be taken to manage a whole new family..., the emotion of leaving their own family and continue to work on their life.... or the happiest feeling of having their own small nest with a loving husband....
at this time of lyf galzz will be made to take at most responsibility to manage two families connected to her.....
parents being more gentle than ever... siblings treating as though the gal would never be related to their family here on and taking away those small responsibilities given to her earlier.... etc..
on the other side... gal will be treated as a very important new member of the family by giving the responsibility to manage everything she can.... and also by giving guidelines how to be in their family like how to behave ... what to do and what not to do... etc etc... at this juncture of life... galz normally will be happy to adapt the things easily form their in-laws.....
they really do....
along with all these things there'l be a thought going on in her mind about herself...... whether she'l be able to find ways to her in-laws heart.... now its upto the gal again how she composes herself and deal with the things logically/practically.....
she should take care of her would be husband , in laws , parents , siblings and then herself.....
ohhhh a gal who used to be soo carefree... should take care of all these things..... hmmm don't u think she needs some time to become what she is willing to...... thats very obvious to say that she needs time... but u know what gal will start changing herself from the day one... thats when she comes to know about the family she would be a part of.... she'l consider herself as the temporary member of her own family... which used to be her only family.... when the things get wrong in her parent's place she'l make sure to learn the lesson from that and decides not to repeate that sort of mistakes in her in-laws... to keep her in laws happy.... she'l learn how to manage house chores even better.... she'l learn everything she can to keep her in laws happy....
gal will start considering her place (parent's) as not hers... and she'l be more concentrated on the family she would be a part of.... again here crosses another thought in her mind.... i.e whether she's hurting her parents by not concentrating much on them as earlier done.... ohhhh the surging waves keep on crossing the gals mind .....
how responsible she should be....
