Simple But Less Ordinary....

many ppl think that home making is a easy and not an interesting job.... and think that ladies who are a full time home makers are wasting there life and talents on nothing .....

Home making is one of the tough jobs to do... a job of a home maker starts early in the morning than everyone else.... and ends at only when every one at home goes to sleep... this is also very interesting and u'l get to learn many thing everyday....

home making is like running an organization solely .... u are the boss and u are the servant and u are everything....
many ppl think that ladies do not get paid for the kind of job u do at home... who says we wont get paid....? 
we get enough amount of Love and affection from everyone.... which is like a huge sum of money....
if u want me to tell in terms of money ... u get a huge sum from which u have to manage a whole family.... for this every home maker have to be an accountant and have to maintain a family account....
 she'l have to take care of everyone at home .... when they are sick she should become a readily available nurse..., when they are unhappy she should be a good counselor... when they want to have a party at place she should be an organizer and caterer....
everyone loves a clean home, to maintain that cleanliness she should become a good servant.... For everyone at home she should be a good cook... and inspite of doing all this she needs to spend time for herself....
when the need arises she'l also take the role of an HR manager by managing many ppls at family gatherings....
she'l become a team leader when she goes out for shopping... a senior manager when the rules are laid at home... she becomes a quality analyst when a new product is to be purchased.... a fashion designer while choosing cloths for herself and family members....  a mechanic when small things go wrong in home.... a teacher while teaching her kids..... ahhhhhh the list grows on and on and on.....
A home maker is one who can do multitasking better than any Object Oriented Programing Language....
every other person notices the job done by a homemaker and she'l be acknowledged for that every time.....

Nowadays home making ladiezz have become more updated than the one who is working.... she can do her every other job when she likes to do it and as efficiently as possible.... she does not need to go to other person to have her work done...... its everyone who comes to her.....

Do you think that the one who is working can give and get all the happiness that a home maker gets... ???
i doubt....
So, working ladies don't dare to under estimate us..... we are far ahead from u in every other field....

Surging thoughts........

beautiful nature with gentle breeze .... awesome morning greetings from the nature will not last for the day whole with our daily chores.... galz getting married shortly will have lots and lots of things going on in their mind... be it a feeling of warmth ..., the urge to get passionate... , the responsibility to be taken to manage a whole new family..., the emotion of leaving their own family and continue to work on their life.... or the happiest feeling of having their own small nest with a loving husband....
at this time of lyf galzz will be made to take at most responsibility to manage two families connected to her.....
parents being more gentle than ever... siblings treating as though the gal would never be related to their family here on and taking away those small responsibilities given to her earlier.... etc..

on the other side... gal will be treated as a very important new member of the family by giving the responsibility to manage everything she can.... and also by giving guidelines how to be in their family like how to behave ... what to do and what not to do... etc etc... at this juncture of life... galz normally will be happy to adapt the things easily form their in-laws.....
they really do....

along with all these things there'l be a thought going on in her mind about herself...... whether she'l be able to find ways to her in-laws heart.... now its upto the gal again how she composes herself and deal with the things logically/practically.....

she should take care of her would be husband , in laws , parents , siblings and then herself.....
ohhhh a gal who used to be soo carefree... should take care of all these things..... hmmm don't u think she needs some time to become what she is willing to...... thats very obvious to say that she needs time... but u know what gal will start changing herself from the day one... thats when she comes to know about the family she would be a part of.... she'l consider herself as the temporary member of her own family... which used to be her only family.... when the things get wrong in her parent's place she'l make sure to learn the lesson from that and decides not to repeate that sort of mistakes in her in-laws... to keep her in laws happy.... she'l learn how to manage house chores even better.... she'l learn everything she can to keep her in laws happy....

gal will start considering her place (parent's) as not hers... and she'l be more concentrated on the family she would be a part of.... again here crosses another thought in her mind.... i.e whether she's hurting her parents by not concentrating much on them as earlier done.... ohhhh the surging waves keep on crossing the gals mind .....

how responsible she should be....